Three rules cover nearly all of Fijian etiquette: cover up, take things off, and ask first. Cover shoulders and knees on village ground. Take off your hat, your sunglasses and your shoes where custom expects it. Ask before you photograph anyone, enter anything, or touch anything. Everything below is detail on those three.

This is the practical field guide. For the deeper background — land tenure, faith, history and what Fijian custom actually is — start with Fijian culture and custom.

What should you say?

A handful of words goes a very long way, and Fijians are generous about attempts.

FijianMeaningNotes
Bula / Ni sa bulaHelloLiterally life or health. The formal version adds ni sa
Ni sa yadraGood morning
Ni sa moceGoodbye / goodnightServes as both
VinakaThank you
Vinaka vakalevuThank you very much
IoYes
SegaNo
ValeHouse
KoroVillage

One cultural note worth knowing: Fijians do not typically ask "how are you". A common greeting between people who know each other is "O sa lako i vei?" — literally "where are you going?" — which functions the way "how are you" does in English rather than as a real question. You are not being interrogated.

Why the spelling looks wrong

Fijian orthography assigns several consonants a prenasalised value. Broadly: b is mb, d is nd, q is ng as in finger, g is ng as in singer, and c is th as in the.

So Nadi is Nandi, Beqa is roughly Benga, and kokoda is ko-kon-da. Getting the place names right is noticed, and it takes about ninety seconds to learn.

What should you wear, and where?

Fiji's dress expectations are situational rather than uniform, and the resort standard is not the village standard.

SettingWhat is expected
Resort grounds and beachOrdinary resort wear. Swimwear at the pool and beach, cover up for restaurants
Village visitShoulders and knees covered. Long skirt or dress for women; T-shirt and knee-length shorts for men, or a sulu wrapped at the waist. Hat and sunglasses off. Bag carried in the hand
ChurchFormal. Fijians dress up for church and visitors should match it
Town, market, Suva CBDModest everyday dress. Beachwear is out of place away from the resort strip
Business meeting or conferenceBusiness dress, though a bula shirt is entirely acceptable and often expected at less formal sessions
Ceremony or formal welcomeAs for a village visit, plus a sulu if one is offered. Accept it

A sulu is the single most useful thing to have in a day bag. It solves dress codes, sun, and modesty in one rectangle of cloth, and every market sells them.

What happens at a kava circle?

You will be offered yaqona — kava — at some point, at a resort Fijian night or on a village visit, and the protocol is short.

Stoop low as you move to your seat; never walk upright across the circle. Sit cross-legged on the mat. You will be offered "high tide" (a full cup) or "low tide" (a half) — either answer is fine, and first-timers are usually steered to low tide. Clap once before drinking, drain the bilo in one rather than sipping, then clap three times after.

The clap is a cobo — a deep, cupped-hand clap. It is not applause and it is not loud. Speak softly throughout, and stay quiet during the formal portions. Fijian culture and custom covers the full sevusevu ceremony and what it means.

What must you not do?

The short list, which is mostly Tourism Fiji's own guidance:

  1. Do not touch anyone's head. The head is considered sacred. This includes ruffling a child's hair, which catches out more visitors than anything else on this list.
  2. Do not wear a hat or sunglasses in a village. Take both off on arrival.
  3. Do not carry a bag over your shoulder in a village. Carry it in your hand.
  4. Do not photograph people, homes or ceremonies without asking. In a kava ceremony, wait for the headman to signal that photography is acceptable.
  5. Do not enter a home with your shoes on.
  6. Do not visit a village on a Sunday. Most village tours do not run, and Sunday is for church and family.
  7. Do not start eating before the prayer. A meal invitation is a privilege; wait.
  8. Do not raise your voice. Volume reads as aggression.

What do first-time visitors actually get wrong?

Tourism Fiji publishes its own list of common mistakes, and the etiquette ones sit alongside some very practical failures. The four worth repeating:

  • Ignoring village etiquette. Hire a local guide, dress modestly, remove hats and sunglasses, ask before photographing.
  • Misunderstanding Sundays. Many shops, banks and restaurants close. Use the day to rest rather than to sightsee.
  • Carrying only cards. ATMs are limited in villages, markets and outer islands, and cards are often not accepted. Carry cash — practical Fiji covers money, connectivity and health in full.
  • Overpacking the itinerary. Ferries, domestic flights, tides and weather stretch plans. One or two regions is the advice, and it is good advice.

Does this apply to a business event?

More, not less. Three points a planner should carry:

Meetings frequently open with a prayer. Build a moment for it into the run sheet rather than being surprised by it. A formal welcome is not a filler item — it carries weight, and cutting it to save four minutes reads badly.

Anything on customary land is a Trust Board matter. Roughly 88 per cent of Fiji's land is iTaukei customary land, and a handshake with a village is not a lease. An offsite dinner on village ground, a festival site or a brand activation goes through the iTaukei Land Trust Board. Fijian culture and custom sets out the tenure system.

Performers are professionals. A meke group, a choir, a warrior escort or a firewalking troupe should be named in the programme, credited on any footage, and paid in writing. Ask before you film and ask again before you use the footage commercially. Fijian wedding traditions, done properly covers the same ground for the wedding market.

The verdict

  • Cover shoulders and knees on village ground; a sulu solves it.
  • Hat off, sunglasses off, shoes off, bag in hand.
  • Never touch anyone's head.
  • Ask before every photograph, and ask again for commercial use.
  • Learn five words. Bula, vinaka, io, sega, moce. It changes every interaction you have.
  • Leave Sunday alone in villages.

Next step: buy a sulu on day one and learn the five words on the flight. Fijian culture and custom is the cluster hub for the deeper material, and the 40 best things to do in Fiji puts the cultural experiences alongside everything else. Cultural performance and village experiences in the directory include VOU Fiji in Nadi and Sigatoka River Safari on the Coral Coast; properties with regular cultural programming include Outrigger Fiji Beach Resort, The Pearl Resort, Beqa Lagoon Resort and Shangri-La Yanuca Island. Browse activities or start from the Coral Coast.